In a world where texts have replaced conversations and scrolling has taken the place of gathering, human connection has quietly become a luxury. The simple act of sitting with another person—sharing stories, laughter, or silence—is increasingly rare and precious. How did we get here? And more importantly, how can we reclaim this essential aspect of our humanity and weave meaningful connection back into our daily lives?

Modern luxury isn’t just about having more—it’s about creating space for what truly matters. While we’ve already explored clarity, rest, and spaciousness as markers of abundance, meaningful connection may be one of the most profound luxuries of all.

A Seamless Connection to Spacious Living

This post continues the conversation from our previous exploration of modern luxury—“Modern Luxury: Clarity, Rest, and Spacious Living”—where we examined how clarity, rest, and quiet living have become the new markers of abundance. Now, we extend the concept of luxury to one of its most profound and essential forms: human connection.

While spaciousness and balance create the conditions for a life of intentionality, it’s through meaningful relationships that we experience the deepest richness of life. The two are inextricably linked: when we create spaciousness within ourselves, we make room for authentic connections with others.

Human Connection as a Luxury Good

Technology has revolutionized communication, but at a cost. Face-to-face interactions are being replaced by messages, video calls, and endless social media feeds. While these tools are convenient, they often fail to satisfy our deep need for genuine connection.

Human interaction is becoming something of a “luxury good”—a scarce resource shaped by our busy schedules, dependence on technology, and increasingly isolated lifestyles. Research shows that real human connection fosters joy, reduces stress, and even improves our health. But in today’s fast-paced world, making time for these connections feels harder than ever.

The Decline of Relational Goods

Economists refer to the non-material benefits of relationships—like shared joy, mutual support, and community—as “relational goods.” These are the intangible rewards of spending meaningful time with others, but they’re becoming harder to access. Packed schedules, urbanization, and the normalization of digital interactions mean we’re often sacrificing relational goods for efficiency or convenience.

Even the way we approach connection has shifted. As face-to-face gatherings become rare, some individuals engage in what’s known as “conspicuous non-consumption,” deliberately prioritizing tech-free moments or human-centered experiences as a way of reclaiming connection.

Reclaiming the Luxury of Connection

How do we make human interaction less of a luxury and more of a fundamental part of our lives? It begins with intention and the willingness to create space for meaningful connection:

1. Prioritize In-Person Moments: Whenever possible, choose face-to-face over digital communication. Meet a friend for coffee, plan a walk together, or simply sit with someone without distractions.
2. Set Digital Boundaries: Reduce screen time and designate specific times for phone-free interactions. The absence of technology creates room for deeper, more authentic exchanges.
3. Curate Community Spaces: Seek out environments that foster connection, whether that’s a local event, a creative workshop, or even a cozy corner in a café.
4. Simplify Your Schedule: Cut back on unnecessary commitments to make room for relational goods—time spent laughing, sharing, or simply being with others.

Connection as Part of Spacious Living

This conversation builds on our previous exploration of modern luxury—clarity, rest, and spaciousness as forms of abundance. While these practices create the internal space for balance, meaningful connection allows us to bring that sense of spaciousness into our relationships.

When we slow down, think clearly, and live intentionally, we naturally create space for the kind of connection that nourishes the soul. Human interaction isn’t just a luxury to seek; it’s the foundation of a rich, fulfilling life.

True modern luxury is the ability to reclaim what matters: clarity, rest, stillness—and now, connection. As we intentionally create space for these gifts, we shift from simply surviving in a busy world to thriving with presence, purpose, and joy.