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Keeping It Simple: Reclaiming Ease in Healing and Growth

VictoriaChemko
ByVictoriaChemko

What if the most profound healing practice wasn’t found in elaborate rituals or expensive tools but in the simplest act of sitting still and listening? As humans, we tend to overcomplicate things—layering on techniques, supplements, and routines in an effort to “do the work.” Yet, what if the real work is not in doing more, but in doing less? What if healing is as simple as trusting what’s already within us?


Why Do We Overcomplicate Healing?

It’s natural to want progress. When we feel stuck, hurt, or unfulfilled, we look for ways to fix, move forward, or “improve.” In this search, it’s easy to believe that healing must involve complex systems or a variety of tools to be effective.

  • The Desire for Control: We reach for structure and strategies to feel like we’re taking charge of our growth.
  • Cultural Conditioning: Wellness trends often emphasize external tools—like supplements, elaborate rituals, or new modalities—as the path to transformation.
  • Fear of Sitting With Ourselves: Sometimes, simplicity can feel too uncomfortable. Sitting in stillness, we face our raw selves without distraction.

While these tendencies are natural, they can steer us away from the innate wisdom and ease that’s already available within us.


Simplicity in Practice: Sitting With Ourselves

At its core, healing doesn’t have to be complicated. The simplest practices—stillness, breath, presence—are often the most powerful. Why? Because they remove the noise, allowing us to tune into our inner wisdom.

Stillness as Medicine

Sitting quietly, whether in meditation or simply observing the world around you, invites the body and mind to recalibrate.

  • It allows the nervous system to shift from a stressed state to a restorative one.
  • In the stillness, emotions, and thoughts can rise, be acknowledged, and release naturally.
  • It creates space for clarity to emerge, often revealing what’s truly needed for healing.

Listening to the Body

Our bodies hold so much wisdom—yet we rarely pause long enough to hear what they’re saying. Through intuitive listening, we can connect to what we truly need, whether that’s rest, nourishment, movement, or emotional release.


When Complexity Becomes a Distraction

There’s nothing wrong with tools, plants, or practices that enhance our journey. In fact, many modalities have their place and can offer profound benefits. However, when these additions become a distraction—when we believe we need them to heal or grow—they can take us further from the simplicity of our innate ability to heal.

For example:

  • Drinking ceremonial cacao or using healing crystals can be beautiful rituals, but their power often comes from the intention and belief we bring to them—not the objects themselves.
  • Attending workshops or retreats can offer transformative insights, but the lasting work often happens in the quiet integration that follows.

Ultimately, it’s not about what we use, but what we believe. Healing happens not because of the complexity of our practices, but because we align with our inner truth and allow ourselves to trust the process.


Can Healing Really Be This Simple?

Yes, healing can be simple. However, simplicity doesn’t mean it’s always easy. Sitting still and listening—whether to your breath, your heart, or your body—requires courage. It’s a practice of being with yourself fully, without distraction or escape.

The Truth About Simplicity

  • Simplicity invites us to let go of the need for external validation.
  • It encourages us to trust our inner voice and believe in our capacity to heal.
  • It removes the pressure of “getting it right” and reminds us that the journey is about presence, not perfection.

Finding Balance: Simple Practices, Deep Belief

While simplicity is powerful, it’s also important to honor what works for you. Each of us has our own preferred modalities—whether it’s yoga, plant medicine, or traditional therapy—and those can play a meaningful role in our journey. The key is to approach these practices with intention, rather than as a way to “fix” something that feels broken.

How to Embrace Simplicity in Your Healing Journey

  1. Start With Presence: Dedicate a few minutes each day to simply sitting with yourself. No goals, no expectations—just presence.
  2. Trust Your Intuition: Listen to what feels right for you. If a practice or tool resonates, use it. If it doesn’t, let it go.
  3. Release the Need for Complexity: Remind yourself that healing doesn’t have to look impressive or elaborate to be effective.
  4. Focus on the Basics: Breath, rest, movement, and nourishing food are often all your body and mind truly need.
  5. Reframe “Progress”: View healing as a journey of connection and self-discovery rather than a linear process of achieving milestones.

The Simplicity of Being

At the heart of all healing is the act of being present—present with ourselves, our feelings, and our journey. When we strip away the layers of complexity and return to this simplicity, we discover something profound: healing isn’t about doing more; it’s about allowing more.

So, the next time you’re tempted to add another layer to your practice or feel like you’re not doing enough, pause. Sit quietly. Breathe. Ask yourself: What do I already have within me that can guide this moment?

The answer might surprise you in its simplicity.

About the Author

VictoriaChemko

VictoriaChemko

Founder & CEO
A successful three-time entrepreneur and Founder of Umami Journeys, Victoria has connected a network of global business visionaries, investors, artists and healers as core partners for Scaling Love®.
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